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Angela Miller

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Over the last couple months I've noticed the absence of this forums greatest contributor and one of the nicest people on it ! This person was the first to come to my rescue with maybe my second post . He gave me Great and continued support as i would come to find this is a place immense cruelty . Theses shark infested waters are no means easy to keep your head above . But one learns quick it's sink or swim here . So when a life preserver seems to go MIA its cause for Concern !

I'm speaking of FootyLovin FootyLovin ! It's my prayer he and his family are fine and doing well and that life's business may factor into this APB .

PLEASE Don't let me find out someone may have hurt or been disrespectful to him !! I have taken so much BS from this Jury so if this was the case your knife went into 2 backs . To make threats would do no good since that the only thing people would concentrate on. Lets just hope those who may have caused harm would and should be dealt with !! This Is All Just Speculation at this point !

If anyone should have a connection with him outside this forum PLEASE Let Him know that about my effort to reach him ! I miss him and worried and Hope all is Good !

Thanks !
 
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So about 20 pages ago on the stadium thread people discussed curling which spiraled into other Offtopic comments which led to him deciding not to post here. (I'm assuming)
Which is a shame as he's one of our top contributing members.
I wish he would of decided to use the ignore function instead.
 
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So about 20 pages ago on the stadium thread people discussed curling which spiraled into other Offtopic comments which led to him deciding not to post here. (I'm assuming)
Which is a shame as he's one of our top contributing members.
I wish he would of decided to use the ignore function instead.
I kinda figured it be something like this . Why do I even bother being upset ? It's pointless !! Dan I know your in the middle of a move and your life is crazy at the moment . Boss this is your forum !! But as you can see you have no control over the Clear Level Cruelty that exists here !!

Was this your intention when you started this ? NO of course not !! This is what happens when Shits are on it and ruin a good thing ! But it's high time you acknowledge this problem !! There's nothing you can do about it . There's been so much Damage Done here on many levels . This problem with certain factors of this forum I don't think can ever be controlled and these people can do what they want and get way with it ! It's well beyond your reach at this point !

But just Please acknowledge this problem !! That's all very simple . I don't think that's asking too much and it's all you can do ! I'm not mad at you this is not your fault ! Thanks and good luck going forward with this problem !:(
 
So about 20 pages ago on the stadium thread people discussed curling which spiraled into other Offtopic comments which led to him deciding not to post here. (I'm assuming)
Which is a shame as he's one of our top contributing members.
I wish he would of decided to use the ignore function instead.

I really hope this isn't the case. Even for someone as fundamentally decent as FootyLovin FootyLovin , quitting a forum over a disagreement without posting a final self justifying screed is so far outside my expectations for internet behavior I can't believe it would really happen.

Instead I choose to believe he's just busy somewhere selling his decision making software for millions and will return to tell the glorious tale shortly.
 
I really hope this isn't the case. Even for someone as fundamentally decent as FootyLovin FootyLovin , quitting a forum over a disagreement without posting a final self justifying screed is so far outside my expectations for internet behavior I can't believe it would really happen.

Instead I choose to believe he's just busy somewhere selling his decision making software for millions and will return to tell the glorious tale shortly.
I like to think I set an example of how to behave.
 
I kinda figured it be something like this . Why do I even bother being upset ? It's pointless !! Dan I know your in the middle of a move and your life is crazy at the moment . Boss this is your forum !! But as you can see you have no control over the Clear Level Cruelty that exists here !!

Was this your intention when you started this ? NO of course not !! This is what happens when Shits are on it and ruin a good thing ! But it's high time you acknowledge this problem !! There's nothing you can do about it . There's been so much Damage Done here on many levels . This problem with certain factors of this forum I don't think can ever be controlled and these people can do what they want and get way with it ! It's well beyond your reach at this point !

But just Please acknowledge this problem !! That's all very simple . I don't think that's asking too much and it's all you can do ! I'm not mad at you this is not your fault ! Thanks and good luck going forward with this problem !:(
You're way over reacting.
 
I'm ITALIAN ! better the over reaction it comes with the territory then under reaction or out right denial . So we can just leave it at that folks !! I just want FootyLovin FootyLovin back !! THANKS !!
Go to his house and politely ask him to come back. Also, PM Midas to see if he will write a personal apology that you can bring to him as well.
 
Go to his house and politely ask him to come back. Also, PM Midas to see if he will write a personal apology that you can bring to him as well.
You know I'm 51 and don't get your comment at all ??? What ever drama there is with Midas Mulligan Midas Mulligan Again No Clue Here !! Please Leave Me Alone !! THANK YOU !!
 
I actually hadn't even looked at this thread - my tags got mixed in with others I guess. I had wondered where he went but figured he might be busy with non-soccer stuff (i.e., non-essential things like his business interests).

I didn't think there was any ill will. Based on the last posts in that discourse, it seemed we all agreed to disagree and let it go. Also, I'm not nearly so presumptuous as to believe I have that sort of impact on anyone. But I'm also open to the possibility that I was overly dickish, even if I didn't intend to do more than voice dissent.

He's a top notch guy, whom I respect immensely. I'll reach out off the board sometime this week. I consider FootyLovin FootyLovin a friend, even if we don't see eye to eye on everything. Without going into too much detail, I'll just say I don't think I could ever repay him for how he's come through for me in the clutch.
 
I spoke with FootyLovin FootyLovin at the game on Saturday and I can confirm he's doing well. We also previously spoke about why he's no longer active on the boards but I'll leave that to him to explain if he chooses to do so.
Paul Paul THANK YOU !!! Since I obviously don't have the connection you have with him PLEASE PLEASE tell him about this thread and what I'v done for him ! I really like it if he knew it's very important to me !! Thank You ! Thank You ! Thank You !!!:)
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Angela Miller Angela Miller thank you so much for all your kind words. The fact of this thread's existence is very heart warming. Thank you also to others who have expressed kind thoughts here or in PM to me. Having learned of this thread's existence I felt the least I should do was to offer some response.

I'll try to make this short.

I did decide to leave the forums shortly after the aforementioned disagreement with Midas Mulligan Midas Mulligan, someone I consider to be a friend. However, it wasn't that conversation that caused me to leave. It was that the conversation was instructive to a broader trend. For a few months before that I had found myself contributing less and less. I make a point of regularly asking myself what parts of my life bring me happiness and what parts don't. When anything falls into the "don't" category for too long I make a change.

The forum seemed to have fallen into that category. Maybe it is me and maybe it is the forum. Over the past several months it has seemed less civil. Also the quality to fluff ratio of posts seemed to me to have gone way down. I was spending more time to get less value and more aggravation. Not a good combo.

So I decided to go away. I miss the friendly banter. I miss the analysis. I miss the inside info. But I don't miss the aggression. If I decide to dip a toe back in I will try NYCFC_Dan NYCFC_Dan 's suggestion of using ignore much more liberally.

For anyone who cares to, I am thrilled to grab a beer pre-match or halftime. PM me anytime.

Thank you again.
 
Angela Miller Angela Miller thank you so much for all your kind words. The fact of this thread's existence is very heart warming. Thank you also to others who have expressed kind thoughts here or in PM to me. Having learned of this thread's existence I felt the least I should do was to offer some response.

I'll try to make this short.

I did decide to leave the forums shortly after the aforementioned disagreement with Midas Mulligan Midas Mulligan, someone I consider to be a friend. However, it wasn't that conversation that caused me to leave. It was that the conversation was instructive to a broader trend. For a few months before that I had found myself contributing less and less. I make a point of regularly asking myself what parts of my life bring me happiness and what parts don't. When anything falls into the "don't" category for too long I make a change.

The forum seemed to have fallen into that category. Maybe it is me and maybe it is the forum. Over the past several months it has seemed less civil. Also the quality to fluff ratio of posts seemed to me to have gone way down. I was spending more time to get less value and more aggravation. Not a good combo.

So I decided to go away. I miss the friendly banter. I miss the analysis. I miss the inside info. But I don't miss the aggression. If I decide to dip a toe back in I will try NYCFC_Dan NYCFC_Dan 's suggestion of using ignore much more liberally.

For anyone who cares to, I am thrilled to grab a beer pre-match or halftime. PM me anytime.

Thank you again.
OKAY ! I had to sit on this for a few day's . I'm Relived that FootyLovin FootyLovin and family are well . But what I want to say for the rest will surly get me Banned permanently. NYCFC_Dan NYCFC_Dan as I read Footy's response over and over trying to figure out what to say . The only person I can think of is you and The Problem I asked you to acknowledge . You can now see for your self what's happen as a result . I Give Up on this ! It's not just me or Footy but there are others I wonder about their absence . The girls Vaporizer Vaporizer and leilanikali420 seem missing as well !! Boss you mean you haven't asked yourself What's Going On ?? But again this is your forum to do what you want with it . I'm not mad at you just puzzled !

To the rest of you Thanks for not one Thank- You for my effort on this thread . Missing like so much here !! I'm spent tired and too old for this !
 
OKAY ! I had to sit on this for a few day's . I'm Relived that FootyLovin FootyLovin and family are well . But what I want to say for the rest will surly get me Banned permanently. NYCFC_Dan NYCFC_Dan as I read Footy's response over and over trying to figure out what to say . The only person I can think of is you and The Problem I asked you to acknowledge . You can now see for your self what's happen as a result . I Give Up on this ! It's not just me or Footy but there are others I wonder about their absence . The girls Vaporizer Vaporizer and leilanikali420 seem missing as well !! Boss you mean you haven't asked yourself What's Going On ?? But again this is your forum to do what you want with it . I'm not mad at you just puzzled !

To the rest of you Thanks for not one Thank- You for my effort on this thread . Missing like so much here !! I'm spent tired and too old for this !
You want me to moderate people's feelings and emotions? You'd be at the top of the ban list.
 
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Hi Angela Miller Angela Miller , I'm actually here everyday reading threads that interest me. I've never been an active poster, and I usually just get disappointed when I read the stadium thread, although page 420 was enjoyable. I should have posted a photo lol

I did go to city in the boroughs the other night and again no new stadium news..

I post only if I have something to say that would add to the conversation, I usually don't. ;)