On the other hand, it feels so damn cheap. It's going in. You aren't supposed to use your hands. It's not on accident.
I'm not sure why this feels (to me) much worse than committing an egregious foul that accomplishes the same thing. I'm trying to think of examples from other sports to relate this to and am struggling a bit on that.
My closest analogy is pass interference in football. It's not exact, but it has similar elements and the sport struggles with it. In the NFL, the penalty for a PI call against the defense is determined by the length of the pass, and often is 30-40 yards and even more. It is by far the largest penalty in the sport. I college, unless they changed it (I don't keep up with CFB as much) it is a 15-yard penalty even if the pass was going to be for 40 yards and a touchdown.
Both penalties fail. No one is happy with their application across all instances of PI. When the penalty is only 15 yards, any time a CB is about to get torched he should rationally just grab the receiver and pull him down. When the penalty is the full length, you often get borderline good faith defending penalized with egregious yard totals. But even with the harsher penalty, it can be like the soccer situation because PI in the end zone gives the offense the ball on the 2-yard line, and sometimes they don't score at all, or often only a field goal.
But even there, most PI involves good faith if sometimes clumsy defending and is not cynical. For that I offer 2 examples.
First, several years ago, when the Patriots and Colts annually met in the playoffs, a rumor briefly floated that Belichick told his defenders to commit PI on every play because the refs would never call it that often and it was the best way to stop Peyton Manning. The rumor didn't have legs, and as much as I despise Belichick I can't say it's true, but it did lead to some debate as to whether that was a legitimate tactic. Some said reality is what it is and if you can grab an advantage by breaking rules because enforcement cannot keep up then do so. Others thought there had to be a good faith effort to play within the rules. The debate didn't fall along fandom loyalties either.
Second, in a reverse direction I think of basketball players who intentionally create contact with defenders knowing that as stars, and on offense, they will get the call 90+% of the time even when the defender stays vertical and does not move into the contact. I'm old so my best examples are Michael Jordan and Reggie Miller. They were both absolutely masterful at this. To me that is just as cynical as a defender who commits an intentional handball or grabs a receiver's shirt but the offensive side of this cynical play is very rarely criticized.