A few things:
This was always going to happen. If the extent of MCFC's brand expansion is a kit that resembles theirs and semi-annual friendly, that's a small price to pay for them dumping absurd amounts of money on DPs.
With Man City post season, you have a better chance of seeing players like Aguero, Silva, Yaya Toure, Wilfred Bony, etc. That's a cool experience regardless, especially when the rest of MLS is scheduling big friendlies for the likes of Aston Villa.
The above does not require NYCFC to be oh so grateful for MCFC's generosity to play nice. TR should don all black and let them have hell. Keep in mind though that there are a number of people who are fans of both clubs who think MCFC mishandled (to put it nicely) the Lampard situation, so try to keep the chanting respectful of them and more directed at the BS from Pellegrini and Lamps. But otherwise, I think a strong statement by TR of independence from the CFG project will go a long way in legitimizing NYCFC support in the eyes of non-NYCFC fans, including some who are hesistant to support the club lest they root for Man City USA.
Agree with what you're saying basically although I disagree with this.
I went to see City and Chelsea play a post season game and it was the worst live soccer experience I have ever seen. Usually when foreign teams come to the United States they come for pre season games so there is more energy I guess. Because it was the flattest game I could have imagine.. it ended 5-3, which seems like it would be exciting, but it really isnt.
The two teams lined up like this
Manchester City: Hart; Kompany (C), Zabaleta, Kolarov, Boyata; Nasri, Barry, Silvaa, Toure; Aguero, Tevez
Chelsea: Hilario; Luiz, Azpilicueta, Christensen, Ake; Ramires, Oscar, Obi Mikel, Loftus-Cheek; Ba, Torres (C)
and I remember Mata coming in for Chelsea because he scored a free kick.
People were leaving at half time because it was so bad. Basically played at a walking pace and you could tell neither of the two teams cared to be there because it was a post season friendly. I can't imagine it would be any better if its NYC playing City, especially seeing as a large portion of the fans going (the home teams fans) don't like the team thats playing.