And now maybe MLS gets rid of their geographical rules for academies. If clubs from anywhere else in the world can just swoop in and not play by MLS rules, why should we constrain our own teams to them?
And now maybe MLS gets rid of their geographical rules for academies. If clubs from anywhere else in the world can just swoop in and not play by MLS rules, why should we constrain our own teams to them?
I thought that academy wasn't opening until 2019? And what the hell, isn't playing at that academy the equivalent of saying you're friends with Donald Trump because you clerk the front desk at a Trump branded hotel? Ugh.
Since NYCFC was Free, let’s wait to see what that Solidarity Payment amounts to.... oh wait....I thought that academy wasn't opening until 2019? And what the hell, isn't playing at that academy the equivalent of saying you're friends with Donald Trump because you clerk the front desk at a Trump branded hotel? Ugh.
Don't underestimate how serious this problem can be. What if the Gio Reyna that isn't the son of our Sporting Director leaves?
The player is question. Yes, he was one of our best U19 players. 100% of this falls on Claudio Reyna and it must be asked how we can retain youth players.
I’m kind of with you here. I don’t think it’s derogatory any more than “sorority girl” is derogatory.
So kind of derogatory, but the “Jewish” part of it is like ancillary and not the derogatory part.
But I’m not Jewish.
ETA: it’s like “Southern Belle”, I guess.
Also, being “not a Jew” may be the only thing I share in common with OJ Simpson.
What?And while I'm at it, I don't love the black hat avatar/forum name combo, Jewish or not.
Have you been to Long Island. That's the exact context I was thinking of. JAP for me is anyone upper middle class and spending Daddy's credit cards. I was playing nice and apologized for my comment but I feel like at this point your getting offended for the sake of getting offended. I no longer practice Shabbat or fast on Yom Kippur but being a Jew is still a big part of who I am. As you said context is key and you made assumptions without context.I don't think your take on this could be any worse.
It's so rarely used any more that much of the derogatory part of JAP is long forgotten (kind of like when you say someone has welshed on a bet, it isn't really bigoted towards the Welsh), but it was 100% a derogatory phrase, 100% negative stereotyping of Jewish girls and 100% not at all similar in any way to the term "sorority girl" which has no ethnic component at all. No different than to describe haggling as "jewing".
The problem to me is the context. If he was referring to a spoiled girl as jappy it would have been less bothersome than using it as a catchall term for rich people who spend their money ostentatiously and foolishly.
And while I'm at it, I don't love the black hat avatar/forum name combo, Jewish or not.
Have you been to Long Island. That's the exact context I was thinking of. JAP for me is anyone upper middle class and spending Daddy's credit cards. I was playing nice and apologized for my comment but I feel like at this point your getting offended for the sake of getting offended. I no longer practice Shabbat or fast on Yom Kippur but being a Jew is still a big part of who I am. As you said context is key and you made assumptions without context.
I gave you two terms. Southern Belle and sorority girl.Uch. I’ll get into this again without railing on the OP, who is just a kid.
Midas Mulligan find me a similar term for a rich catholic kid. Or a rich Irish kid. Or rich Italian kid. The very phrase Jewish American Prince/Princess begets the stereotype that Jewish kids are rich and spoilt.
Let’s add the context it was used: saying that the JAPs will flock to an expensive pay to play program. And you’re doubling down on the derogatory fallacy.
But again, it was said by a kid, who is Jewish himself (even if his name/avatar is in poor taste) and I’m sure he doesn’t realize the effects of his words. Shown by how quickly he deleted his post. He seems like a good kid, who’s a bit confused. But we are adults here and I hope you can understand why this just isn’t cool. It’s like someone at a tailgate saying the first thing that comes to mind about Mississippi is “racist”. That’s a whole lot of bullshit if you ask me.
I gave you two terms. Southern Belle and sorority girl.
There are tons of shit that unfairly gets associated with both.
I’m not defending the phrase, I’m just making a point that people don’t necessarily always mean the worst. Hell, they may not even get it.
Well then I think we agree. He didn’t mean it in a bad way. But it conotes a bad thing.
And the combo of the term and jews being the ones to afford a pay to play academy is clothing the whole association as something factual. Which is the worst type of racist propaganda. Had to call it out.
That shit is so uppity.