This is a pretty strong nurture effect. Athletes tend to be very driven, but a lot of people are very driven. They become doctors or lawyers or phds or executives or artists or ...Do you have any insight into that? I've been around some industry-specific famous and c-list just famous people, and I honestly don't have a clue beyond what I read into the fact that by-and-large, they do not act or interact or relate to people in any sort of "normal" way. Were that they way before or is it a product of that fame?
I mean, do big-time fund managers and executives walk around elementary school with a general air of superiority/cockiness/arrogance? I don't mean a little arrogant. I mean, the kind of "I'm giving you the treasure of my presence" that I just couldn't pull off.
Really interesting diversion, anyway. If you care to elaborate and share your insights, I'd be curious to compare.
They aren't all completely out of touch with the experience of normal people.
But something happens when you stop having any normal experiences. Normal experience examples:
- Meeting someone who doesn't want you to talk endlessly about yourself.
- Finding something in a store/online that you want but can't afford to buy.
- Being encouraged to care what people think of you and say about you.
Your psyche changes. Of course there are exceptions. But this is what it is.