Look at what Dax McCarty says about our team.  I know Jason Kreis does not want to play this way, I know his mindset is Possession with a PURPOSE.  But look at what Dax says about our style of play starting at the 48 second mark.
I know this isn't coaching.  It is the players lack of confidence and playing scared.  Not wanting to push the ball forward.  I AM LOOKING AT YOU MIX!!!!  There is a great stat on MLSSOCCER.com about Mix having the lowest percentage of long passes compared to short aka safe passes.  This is something I said over 3 weeks ago.
And this is exactly how a team can beat you when playing down a man for over 60 minutes.  POSSESSION without any purpose.  No penetrating passes.  No threat whatsoever to the opposing backline and goalie SMH.....